Choosing Funeral Flowers: You Don't Have to Get It Perfect
When someone you love has died, the last thing you want is to worry about whether you've chosen the "right" flowers. You haven't — because almost all flowers, chosen with sincerity and care, are right. Our florists at Blooms at London have decades of experience supporting families through this, and our first advice is always this: you don't have to get it perfect. Flowers chosen with love will always carry that meaning.
Types of Funeral Tribute
Wreaths
The circular wreath is the most traditional funeral tribute in the UK, symbolising eternity and the cycle of life. They are typically displayed alongside the coffin at the funeral service. Sizes range from 12 inches to 24 inches in diameter. We create both classic foam-backed wreaths and more contemporary "open" or "organic" wreaths.
Sprays and Sheaves
A spray is a large, flowing arrangement designed to be placed on top of the coffin. A sheaf is a more relaxed, loose hand-tied tribute in the style of freshly cut garden flowers. Both are popular alternatives to wreaths, particularly for those who prefer a less formal aesthetic.
Pillows and Hearts
Foam-based arrangements in the shape of a heart or pillow are often chosen by close family members. They carry a particular intimacy and are often labelled "Mum," "Dad," "Grandad," or with the person's name in flowers or ribbon lettering.
Letter Tributes
Individual letters — spelling a name or a word like "MUM" or "SON" — are deeply personal and visually striking at the funeral service.
Posies and Small Arrangements
For those attending as mourners rather than immediate family, a small hand-tied posy or simple bouquet is a thoughtful and appropriate tribute.
Appropriate Flowers and Colours
White is the most traditional colour for funeral flowers in the UK, representing purity and peace. Soft creams, pale pinks, and lavenders are also widely used. White lilies are the quintessential funeral flower — symbolic, dignified, and fragrant. Chrysanthemums, long associated with mourning across Europe, are a respectful choice. White roses convey respect and purity. Carnations, particularly in white, symbolise pure and deep love.
Practical Considerations
- Contact us as soon as possible — we can usually accommodate orders within 24–48 hours even at short notice
- Confirm the funeral director's address for delivery — we deliver directly to the funeral home
- Check whether the family has requested "no flowers" — if so, a donation to the stated charity is more appropriate
- Include a personal message or tribute on the card — our team will help if you're struggling with words
We're Here to Help
Our florists will never rush you or make you feel that your questions are too small. If you need to talk through what to order, please call us or visit one of our London stores. We understand how difficult this time is, and we are honoured to help.